拾年初的日出
心殤。希望。
你是深不可測,還是直接了當?
你好勝嗎?倔強嗎?還是樂天知命?
你的心裡,可還懷有希望和激情?
不知天高地厚的初生之犢,爭做風雲人物。在名利廣場中央,金碧輝煌的浮雕旋轉樓梯突然倒蹋,在上面的人難逃殘酷一跌,一身都是泥。盛裝羽毛不見了,水晶花冠跌爛了,象牙權杖斷裂了,黃金護身符失靈了。
千謀萬慮,賭勝爭強,奇奇幻幻,只因一局之誤,致遭七情之磨。
妖霧橫禍天上來,數載努力剩沉哀。
難怪好事的旁觀者嘆息:可憐金玉質,終陷淖泥中。
然而,爭做風雲人物的初生之犢,有知識有意志,蹈光養晦,換上新衣,在磨練之後一定有機會最後脫穎而出。由頭到尾都只想逃避工作、推卸責任的人,一生註定毫無突破。
是時候點算那散落一地的魔法寶物,收拾心殤,在殘垣敗壁之中咬緊牙關走下去。
拾年初的日出
新的拾年又開始了。你準備好了嗎?
Hillary Rodham Clinton ,美國國務卿,前第一夫人,一個絕對敢作敢為的厲害奇女子,對於人性及社會的演進,有獨到的見解。Clinton在自傳Living History裡,曾經寫過這一句精僻的話:‘Change is certain, progress is not.’。這句話套在你我身上,別有意思。
過去十年,我們的環境、社會變了不少,亞洲金融風暴、八萬五災難、SARS、金融海嘯、香港過去十年的經濟經歴了上落。經濟由九七前的亢奮,變成現在的停滯不明朗。
紛繁複雜之中,你可能進步了,但也可能沒有。
活在大世紀,你可玩得起?
當年毛澤東長征,軍隊七零八落,差一點兒就玩完了。他如何在極惡劣的環境下反攻,在所到之處,利用心戰來團結農民,打敗當時財力兵力都優勝但不得人心的國民黨,實是一件歴史奇蹟。
邪始終不能勝正,風光不是永遠,愴痛也不是永遠。
清早六點,望著太陽在休息之後旭日東昇,大地再次在銀光中轉為光明,心裡默唸著:我相信希望,我擁抱未來。亦祝你在新的拾年心想事成。
空長夢短
時光在這大地上流過了幾百幾千年;見證了多少成就、疾病、生離死別。培育了多少祭司、商人、作家、醫師。成就了你的瑰麗起義,我的上進緊日子。
你可知道生命是甚麼?
夢中夢?
香無瑕?
不好笑的笑話?
一場賤骨頭的賤買賤賣?
我在忽陰忽睛的迷路花園尋找傳說中閃閃發光的金幣,卻意外地發現金色的雄獅,以君臨天下的氣勢登場,令我驚鴻一瞥。稀世金幣未找到,我卻面紅了。
讐人
你是誰的愛人?你又是誰的仇人?
意見不合,不是什麼特別可恥的事,也不是什麼特別喜樂值得慶祝的事。利益,可以看清一個人真實的性格。
有些人玩passive aggressive玩到出神入化。
故意讓別人偷聽到偷情偷歡的不雅聲音。
故意讓別人偷聽到單打的尖酸刻薄對話。
名門水流花靜,暗藏人性猙獰。面若桃花而不快樂的男人,最最最危險。
這時,竟然有自以為是的偽君子找上門,希望在紛爭不幸中漁人得利。你看穿這種連拙劣的江湖技倆,直接告訴他們:一分鐘也沒有時間去聽你說教,更沒有時間去討 論註定goes no where的話題。有一分鐘,寧願去學普通話,去浸香草浴保持狀態,去Harvard Business Blog打聽最新的管理大師思想,去看Bernard Pivot的戀酒事典。
你呷一口花茶,笑著警告他們:別和本人對抗。玩passive aggressive,其實也在玩死自己和自己的幸福。除非有足夠的財力美色令貪戀的人漠視種種性格缺憾,否則這些別有用心的人,最後必定懨懨瘦損,孤苦遠行,一生寂寞。
生命是一塊鏡
Failing to be a giver, we feel ungiven to. Failing to show up fully for life, our life then seems to feel empty.
-Marianne Williamson
我們無法改變自己的出身,但經後天的努力,卻可以改變命運軌跡。我們今天的每一個選擇,都足以影響人生最終結局。自由選擇我們的思考方法,是上天送給我們的 禮物,你和我一樣都可以透過努力,自創命運。縱使不是出身世家,卻美麗出眾,見識不凡,成就瑰麗傳奇一生。更加衷心希望,你可以盡力而為,以平常心面對成 長。
一些不忿
一面手鏡
一腔憤怒
一些遺憾嫌棄
成長為
一些不忿轉化成自信鬥心,令自己別人成功
一面手鏡可以看到別人的內在美和外在美
一腔憤怒升華為激情,推動自己和社會的演變改進
一些遺憾嫌棄令我們學會欣賞,驚覺身邊幾千萬大大小小的幸福和擁有。

9 個意見:
can I ask how old are you? You look so young but the way you think is so mature.
Sorry...I am too 八掛,it's ok if you don't want to tell, but I have to ask otherwise I will start googling you XD.
Harvard Business Blog-->website of Harvard Business Review? I love the hard copy more, I can spend whole afternoon at serial section,it's cozy and relax.
http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_FaHm_UcIK2w/SLljYziJerI/AAAAAAAAAM4/TMtNEGftWBY/s1600-h/DSC_0138_115.jpg
Have a nice weekend!
有夢想才有動力,生活因此而不平凡。
師奶我身處夢想中,仍繼續尋下一個要實現的理想。
Echo, thanks very much, again I'm flattered. You too, did a very good job in reinventing yourself. I haven't met that many people who are so committed to educating themselves.
I wrote before "擁有十七歲的緊緻外貌,二十五歲的體能,四十歲的精密頭腦,六十歲的寬容圓滿,一百歲的樂天知命,是我們窮一生努力的目標。" As to how old I am, I am old enough to drink and make wise choices, and too young to give in to fate.
Jenni: I agree. You are one hell of a C9. The world needs more talented C9s like yourself.
Oops...I crossed the line, I am so sorry I wouldn't do it again.
It's an accident, 3 years ago; when I was a final year student I applied for the exchange program and picked up Sweden as my first choice. In the end, I was selected as an exchange student to Portugal. At that time, I asked the department staff to put me on the waiting list, luckily someone gave up his/her offer, so I had a wonderful time in Jonkoping (middle part of Sweden) .When I was home, I missed Sweden so much so I decided to come back again. The Master program is free to international student in Sweden; all I need to do just save up every single dollar from my income and applied for the program. Since I haven’t been stayed in Jonkoping, this time I chose a Northern city, a city I know nothing about it. No career goal at that time, but Umea U surprised me and I found my second star, my career target. (1st star: come back to Sweden with a 2 year program)
I didn’t plan to reinvest myself, but we never what will happen in our life, and I still don’t know why I was accidentally fall in love with Sweden @@, creepy.
Echo lol I can see why you fall in love with this lovely place.
And don't worry I'm not offended at all. haha
Good!:)
it's so nice to be a normal person ,but have the same opportunities as others.
I am studying a lot now just because I enjoy it and it's good for my future.This is normal in Sweden, but maybe adnormal in HK,because ppl may expect women should stay home,being less aggressive.
I was expecting similar answer from you (like mental age),you don't want to be a kid occasionally ?Don't u think it's so tired to be an adult all the time?
我們無法改變自己的出身,但經後天的努力,卻可以改變命運軌跡。
Agree to some extent......
我們今天的每一個選擇,都足以影響人生最終結局。
Oh...I thought the end is the same for everyone...lol...
自由選擇我們的思考方法,是上天送給我們的禮物,
Indeed...but maybe free choice have a feature that's better than thinking...
See when you will start the discussion....and btw I will share two historical figure in China that has influence me greatly during this rather disappointing time in my career....
LOL you are right... the ending is the same. But how you get there can be varying.
Actually... I have already started looking into peer research papers on the topic of positive life outcome... will update you soon.
Please share the two historical figures if you don't mind.
張貼意見
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